Today, I held a client deeply in their process
Again, another iteration of the Mother Wound
And very tactile evidence of how much shame associated to this wound we, particularly as women, can hold in our Solar Plexus centre
(The seat of our personal fire 🔥)
Shame around:
How we are supposed to behave
How we are supposed to show up
How - in some instances and this is the most insidious - we are supposed to serve...
And this last one of course really equates to how much juice we have to show up for ourselves (and our clients and our practice as a response to that)
And this has a direct result of our relationship to our mother
And how she may have expected us to show up to serve her (perhaps she still does)
In the place of us being able to take fully of what we need from her as children.
Because, only then can we show up for the other (aka the client, or, funnily enough, our elderly relatives when they truly need our help)
When we ourselves are fully resourced and able to take from our mothers...
Taking from our mothers is not conditional
We don’t have to show up in a certain way to get love,
Lifeforce...
The fact that we are living, breathing iterations of them goes to prove this fact...
What I saw in this client today was a brilliant, white pillar of light at their core,
A bright light essence of brilliance, waiting to emerge
Asking permission to blossom
Asking permission to thrive
Asking permission to be seen.
Can you move beyond your familial expectations, wounding and judgement today a little more
In order to nurture this very same brilliance that burns inside of you?
Because, you are destined for greatness
And the time to claim it is now.
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The Mother Wound (again)
