I am seventh generation of women borne of the South East of England; between the flint and chalk North Downs ridge that ripples parallel to the English Channel - and the open moors of the New Forest with her wild horses, cattle and hum of native black bees.
Friends of the ancient Druidic Yew Tree Groves of my birthplace, Albury (Old English: Otherworldly) and caretaker of Horses, who, regardless of where life takes me, always find me, descendant of all of my ancestors, teachers and guides living and dead and creatrix, mother and muse for our two children, my clients and allies.
Servant of Heaven and Earth and everything in between, I offer my gratitude to every contributor great and small that continues to enrich my life beyond measure.
With great joy I bring you my work.
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Likely, you’re an exceptionally creative being who, on the face of it, everyone thinks has everything zipped up.
The mom with more than one iron in the fire - and more than one foot in the water.
Wife, or life-partner treading the line between leading by necessity and inspiring others to take their roles more fully - and bearing the weight of this inner conflict in your body.
An old soul craving wilderness, horses, shamanic practices and deep and meaningful discord with elders.
A warrior who has done the therapy, coaching and masterminds and can talk about the patterns perfectly, but still secretly hankers to just be alone and quiet again.
Probably, you’ve thought that you were born a century too early - or possibly a millennia too late.
I’m here to show you that you’re right on time.
In these containers you’ll find:
Lineage Reclamation
Untangle the unseen threads: the mother- and father-wounds, the unclaimed gifts, the generational grief, rage and bondage, so you lead from coherence, not compensation or repetition. This is the work behind my flagship field, Lineage Medicine.Nervous System Reset
From override to exhale. We map the somatic signals your body’s been sending (that dread before the next call? It’s intel, not failure) and build a life your system can actually live in.Land & Horse Mirrors
When words fall short. Horses reflect your boundaries, your true, embodied power and your belonging; raw, immediate, transformative.Embodied Strategy
Rewire your model to fit how you want to live: fewer meetings, more mornings in the mist. Legacy as medicine; not martyrdom, not extraction.
The result?
Decisions that feel like home.
Clients who align, not drain.
Husbands who lead alongside you.
Mothering that nourishes you too.
Children who honour you and themselves.
Communities that hold you to your standard, not your performance.
A life where “success” includes dawn walks, days in the mud, mist and muzzles, intentional investments and the knowing you’re walking as the torch-bearer your lineage raised you to be.
“The world doesn’t need another purpose-driven leader. It needs leaders brave enough to marry their purpose with their genius - and skilled enough to make that combination systemically powerful.”
The women this is for
40/45+ founders, ceos, leaders & non-exec directors in quiet - or increasingly overt - rebellion.
High-achievers whose “fine” now feels like flatlined joy.
Women haunted by “What if this is it?”
Leaders who are ready for depth. No more surface hacks. This is ancestral, somatic, systemic, elemental.
If your whole body nods, you’re in the right place.
What this work feels like from the inside
The women quoted below are 45+ founders, CEOs, NEDs and senior practitioners who were holding complex lives'; teams, boards, clients, families and needed somewhere they could be held with the same precision.
“We came into this work as a leadership team, new to systemic constellations. What struck me was how safe and precise the container felt.
Even early on, I could clearly see the benefits both individually and collectively; in how we make decisions, how we see each other and how we hold the business.”
“For the first time in decades, I finally feel comfortable in my own skin – clear on who I am and what’s next, both in my life and in my work.”
“I came to Harriet at a time when I had very little faith left – in people, in myself, in the path I’d chosen.
She reminded me I am not alone, that I can open myself to others and not be afraid; that I can have boundaries and it’s okay – it actually feels cleaner and truer.
Watching how consistently and gently she held so many of us, for so many hours, was truly inspiring. It left me hopeful again at a time I needed it most.
She reminds me that the work is never done – and more importantly, that it can be done with grace.”
“Working with Harriet is a leap worth taking if you’re used to being the one who holds it all together. She is wise, empathetic and patient – and at the same time a clear voice of authority, guided by her values and extraordinary gifts.
I would recommend her to any woman who is ready for a level of depth and clarity that standard coaching simply doesn’t touch.”