Lineage Medicine
12 weeks for the woman who is done holding everything together
Waitlist now for cohort beginning 1st April 2026
A live, field-led journey for 45+ women with British, Irish and Scottish ancestry who lead wealth; creative founders, NEDs, heirs and seasoned practitioners who look perfectly “together” from the outside -
And yet are quietly exhausted from being the one who:
holds the family,
holds the business or boards,
holds the money,
holds the emotional climate for everyone.
Lineage Medicine is where we work at the level underneath mindset: the loyalty contracts in your lineage that keep placing you as the shock absorber in every system - and healer of every system - you’re part of.
The Pattern
You are the woman everyone leans on; at home, on the board, in your wider field.
You are the safe, steady one, the one who always “makes it work” - for yourself and everybody else.
Outwardly, it reads as strength, inwardly, it feels like:
chronic over-responsibility,
resentment - particularly of men, as well as “the system” itself - you don’t particularly want to feel,
a body that is starting to shout “no” while your mouth says “yes”,
a marriage or family life that runs on your capacity to manage everyone else’s nervous system,
teams, groups and communities who unconsciously rely on you to be the go-to adult in the room,
no space to breathe - and nobody to hear you scream!
You have already:
done therapy, coaching, retreats,
shifted and updated boundaries, communication, strategy,
likely sat in ceremony, apprenticed to other cultures, invoked witches, priestesses, goddesses.
Helpful - beautiful, even and yet, here you are; holding, again.
Not because you’re failing the work, yourself, or your purpose - but because, this isn’t only your pattern.
It’s your lineage’s way of surviving - and likely has been for generations.
Lineage Medicine is where we go to the roots of that agreement, so you can stop being the one who holds it all together without dropping the people and work you love (and burning it all to the ground).
WHEN “SPIRITUAL WORK” BECOMES A DISGUISED BYPASS
Many of the women in this field have done very sophisticated inner work.
You may have:
travelled for medicine and mystery,
invested heavily in therapy and high-level coaching,
trained in somatic, systemic or spiritual modalities,
been initiated into medicine women from the Dark Ages or priestess lineages far from home.
None of that is wrong; some of it is deeply, exquisitely right on time.
The sticking point is when it becomes easier to:
identify with a medicine woman from 500 years ago,
or a priestess, or shaman from another land and people,
than it is to sit down with the ordinary, uncomfortable truth of your own people.
The last 10 to 15 generations who lived:
land loss and enclosure,
famine, war and industrialisation,
Empire, colonisation, class jumps and “staying respectable”,
eugenics, institutions and “sending people away”,
medicalised birth, incubators, silent grief,
“good woman” contracts and the cost of being difficult.
When we bypass that - our people, our land, our stories - in favour of more glamorous spiritual narratives, the pattern does not disappear.
It simply continues to move through:
our bodies (symptoms, burnout, vigilance),
our marriages (parent-child dynamics, collapse, contempt),
our money (over-provision, guilt, terror of loss),
our leadership (over-functioning, managing everyone, feeling alone at the top).
In Lineage Medicine, we turn gently, precisely, back towards home:
your mother line and father line,
the forgotten, the difficult, the praised, the shamed,
the cost and the gifts of where you now stand.
From there, any spiritual language you choose becomes rooted, not compensatory.
WHO THIS FIELD IS REALLY FOR
You are:
45+ and identify as white British, Irish or Scottish, or have that heritage
a founder, NED, CEO, heir or seasoned practitioner / space-holder
entrusted with assets, enterprises, people, land, or all of the above
And you recognise yourself in at least some of these:
You are the “go to” person when things go wrong.
You are the one who remembers, anticipates, smooths, repairs.
People experience you as calm, generous, resourced, even when your own system feels frayed.
You feel more like a parent than an equal in at least one key relationship.
Your body is starting to protest: sleep, hormones, inflammation, migraines, anxiety.
Money is technically fine, sometimes very good, yet flat. Lots of duty, not much nourishment.
You are quietly tired of being the only adult in every room.
Most importantly, a part of you knows that this is older than you - that you are part of a bigger story, that began before your lifetime.
WHAT WE ACTUALLY DO HERE
We don’t spend 12 weeks circling your parents, we work systemically.
That means:
we look at the entire field you come from; up to around 15 generations behind you;
we pay attention to how your body, marriage, money and work are currently arranged;
we use live constellations to literally change where you’re standing in relation to others; living and dead.
How we work together
Live systemic constellations on Zoom
Family and structural constellations, done cleanly; no theatre, no forced catharsis.Field-led teaching
Short, precise frames so your mind can relax and your body can show us what’s true.Embodied integration
Simple, do-able practices that honour your nervous system, time and responsibilities.Horses and land (when called by the Field)
The Devon herd and landscape may join us live on screen or in-person (for VIP) as non-negotiable mirrors of truth, belonging and movement.
The question we keep returning to, in many forms, is, “What makes you the one who holds it all - and what needs to move in the line so that this is no longer your fate?”
THE 12-WEEK ARC
Weeks 1 & 2: Naming what you’re really holding
Mapping where you find yourself holding everything (home, work, money, community).
First constellations: you + the systems you currently carry.
Beginning to separate what is truly yours from what never was.
Weeks 3 & 4: Mother line, father line
Meeting your people, further back than stories usually reach.
Seeing how their survival strategies became your “good woman” contracts and over-functioning.
Constellations devoted to each line; often where a lot of breath comes back.
Weeks 5 & 6: Marriage & major bonds
Looking at partners, exes, non-partners and key alliances systemically.
Seeing where you stand in parent/ child, rescuer, punisher, or ghost positions.
Constellations that honour what’s true, whether you’re staying, leaving, or re-negotiating.
Weeks 7 & 8: Body as messenger
Reading symptoms and patterns as systemic information (alongside any medical care).
Finding where your body has been holding what others could not.
Returning burdens to their rightful place.
Weeks 9 & 10: Work, money, responsibility
Seeing how your role as earner, leader, employer or trustee is entangled with ancestral vows.
Working with fear of loss, guilt about ease, and “it’s all on me”.
Constellations for you + wealth + work + lineage.
Weeks 11 & 12: Legacy, place and next steps
Integrating into daily life: conversations, boundaries, structure, timing.
Becoming very honest about what you are now willing and unwilling to hold.
Final constellation: you in your rightful place - with a spine that belongs to you.
WHAT SHIFTs
What I see, consistently, is that women leave this field:
less compelled to automatically pick things up for others,
clearer on what is theirs and what isn’t,
more resourced in their spine and breath,
more honest in their marriages and close relationships,
with a different orientation to wealth, work and responsibility.
The whole texture of their lived experience changes.
The woman who once held everything together begins to:
let other adults be adults,
let the dead be with the dead,
let money and land sit in their own places,
let the living relationships that matter be tended from a truer seat.
You notice it in your body first, then in your calendar, then in the way you’re no longer available for what used to be “just how it is”.
“The biggest shift came through my Dad. Day one, I saw it: I’d been holding him in place. And by holding him, I was blocking my father line from becoming a true resource.
The horses showed it with total precision — three of them holding the truth in their bodies, refusing release until I did.
It broke me open. Sadness, yes — the ache of letting him go. But the relief was bigger. He could return to his rightful position, and what came through from that place was a different kind of support: balanced, steady, clean.
After that, my power started to balance and land. Quiet. Embodied. Unshakeable. I felt my capacity expand — more space, more simplicity. And a surprising gift: the ability to make the complex feel clear.”
WHAT YOU RECEIVE
You’re stepping into a live, curated field.
Over 12 weeks, you receive:
12 x field-led group calls (Zoom)
Constellations, teaching and integration woven in real time around the women present.Replays of every call
If you miss a call, the Field does not stop working for you. Many women move just as deeply watching back.A private hearth space (Telegram or similar)
A low-noise space for questions, check-ins, ripples and witnessing. No performance, no forced sharing.Occasional live sessions with the herd and land
Where the Field asks for it, the Devon horses and landscape will be part of the work; streamed for the group, and in-person for those on the VIP path.
VIP includes everything above, plus:
2 x private 1:1 sessions with me (50-75 minutes, Zoom)
For the pieces you prefer to hold more discreetly: marriage, adult children, inheritance, major decisions, highly public roles.1 x in-person day with the herd in Devon
A weekday we choose together.
Land, horses, weather, tea.
No ceremony, no audience; just you, the Field, and what is ready to move.
Investment:
Core: £3,333
VIP: £3,888
Payment plans available.
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF…
You want to stay anonymous and be “fixed” while doing very little.
You are not willing to feel your part in the pattern as well as what came before.
You are in acute crisis without additional therapeutic / medical support (you cannot currently self-source basic safety).
You mainly want a new badge, modality or brand story rather than genuine change.
You are looking for quick strategies, scripts or hacks rather than deep systemic work.
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No. I’ll walk you through everything. Your body and the Field will do most of the work; your mind is welcome to relax.
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No. Therapy focuses on you as an individual. This work includes you, but also the people and events you’re entangled with.
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You don’t have to call yourself anything. You do need to be willing to feel, to be honest, and to entertain the idea that your life is part of a much longer story.
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Yes, where it’s alive. Those areas tend to show lineage patterns very clearly. We hold them with precision and respect; this is not a place for gossip or spectacle.
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Groups are small and curated. You choose how much you share and what you keep for 1:1. We can work with “representatives” for sensitive topics so your privacy is held.
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You’ll answer a few short questions. If it feels like a fit, I’ll either invite you straight in, or offer a brief call so we can both feel the Field together. If I sense another setting would serve you better right now, I’ll say so.
A FINAL WORD FROM THE FIELD
If The Invisible Inheritance felt like someone had been listening at the door of your inner life
If you are quietly, deeply done with being the one who holds everything together
If a part of you knows your life is meant to be more than maintaining old contracts
Lineage Medicine is the room where we change your position in the story.
Not by abandoning your people, but by finally allowing them to take their rightful place behind you,
So you can take yours, fully, in this lifetime.